Former actress Jacelyn Tay is extra all for her crops than courting, in accordance with her Instagram publish on Monday.
The 47-year-old native character was married for eight years to businessman Brian Wong earlier than they introduced their divorce in 2018. They’ve an 11-year-old son, Zavier.
Tay wrote that her “beloved auntie from Switzerland” is in Singapore for a vacation and that they haven’t seen one another because the pandemic.
After she advised her relative that she didn’t have a boyfriend since her divorce and she or he was “not all for courting or assembly any man (am extra all for my crops), she mentioned, ‘Sweetie, it’s good to discover a companion’”, Tay wrote.
She mentioned within the publish she is completely pleased being single. “Frankly, with my son, a fantastic mum, siblings, many BFFs plus my love – enterprise and work as a well being coach – I’m pleased, well-balanced, peaceable now,” she wrote.
Tay mentioned she wouldn’t accept only a “companion”, until there’s a man whom she actually likes and respects, and who loves and accepts all of her – together with her son and household.
“What do I need to do with that particular person whom I get as a companion? Care for me? I don’t want that truly,” she mentioned. “Intercourse? Sorry… Am far more religious than that.”
She doesn’t imagine in getting right into a relationship out of necessity, describing it as being like a enterprise transaction.
“You come collectively for income. When it’s not worthwhile, you finish the connection,” she wrote. “I additionally don’t imagine marriage is a partnership. I solely imagine in love.”
She gave the instance of her love of the Monstera Albo, saying she loves the plant with no sound motive. “It simply resonates with my vibe, interval,” she wrote. “Identical to after I have a look at my son, I like him it doesn’t matter what.”
Nonetheless, Tay is just not ruling out discovering her real love down the street.
“Solely time will inform,” she mentioned. “Should you actually love, it doesn’t change irrespective of after 10 or 20 years, or with a couple of variations or quarrels.”
She ended the publish with the hashtags #hopelessromanticaboutlife and #jacelynphilosophy.
This text was first revealed in The Straits Occasions.
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