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The Everygirl’s Guide to Manifestation and Your Best Life

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From 30-second TikTok videos to Lizzo swearing it’s her secret for success, manifestation is certainly having its moment. And after a few years of feeling so out of control, it only makes sense that a practice that teaches that you are in the driver’s seat of your own life would be trending (even above #fetapasta and #dogsoftiktok, thank you very much). The actual principles of manifestation may have been misunderstood, or misunderstood with all the additional noise. So whether you’re a skeptic, die-hard fan, or just a little intrigued, I set out to do my research, poll the experts, and bring you only the truth of the Instagram-loved practice promising to transform your life.

First of all, let’s get out of the way what manifestation is It’s not:t’s not a quick fix, it’s not magic, and it’s not an easy way to get a Chanel bag (if I see one more TikTok about manifesting expensive things…). Let’s get that out of the way. Continue reading to learn about manifestation. IsYou can attract your best, happiest and most successful life by taking the concrete steps. 

 

What is manifestation?

While it’s currently trending on TikTok, manifestation is nothing new. It’s been the subject of dozens of bestselling books (namely The SecretAnd The Law of Attraction made easyOprah and Deepak Chopra have praised it. Although manifestation was not mentioned in the New York Times Bestsellers list or Oprah, similar principles have been used in spiritual and philosophical practices since centuries, ranging from transcendentalism to Hinduism. Phineas Quimby (19th century spiritualist) first proposed the law attracting. In other words, This sh*t has world religions, historical figures, and hundreds of years to back it up. 

To keep it simple, the basic premise of manifestation is turning thoughts into reality, but it’s not just about wishing and thinking it will come true (this is not a Cinderella story!). Manifestation involves using your actions, beliefs, and habits in order to create your reality. It has become more popular because many people mistake manifestation with wanting something. But manifestation is less about. wantingLearn more CreateBe aware that you are the one who creates your own life. Intentional manifestation requires effort to de-program what’s no longer serving you and take action on what will. 

Also, while manifestation is considered to be a practice, it’s something we’re doing all day every day, whether we’re aware of it or not. According to the law of attraction, what energy you put into the world is what you get back (even if it’s subconscious), so the practice of manifestation is just about being more intentional with how we’re creating our own lives.

 

 

6 steps to manifest your dreams now

 

1. Allow yourself to daydream more often

The first step in achieving your dreams is to allow yourself to do more of the things you did as a child. Our busy lives often lead to us worrying about the future or creating to-do lists. Our brainpower is very limited and we rarely get excited about the possibilities. Realizing that our lives do not have to be boring and filled with routines is the first step to manifestation. There are infinite possibilities for what you can make of your life. This can be put into practice by allowing yourself to daydream about the things you want from each bucket of your life (career and relationships, travel, etc.), just to get excited about life’s possibilities. Also, wake up every morning thinking about all the good things that could happen that day and what you want your day to look like (look—you’re already manifesting!). 

 

2. Clarify your vision of what you want to achieve

Knowing what you want to manifest is the next step in manifesting. This might sound obvious, but it’s a common mistake. For example, you might get so caught up in wanting more money that you work to manifest a promotion, but it’s still a job that’s all wrong for you. Ask yourself what you want to manifest. Really Want (like financial abundance, a loving marriage, etc.Next, you need to determine what actions will really get you the results that you desire. Once you’re clear on what you want to manifest, you also need to get specific: Instead of “I want to be in a relationship,” define what this relationship looks and feels like and make a list of the qualities you expect in a partner. 

 

3. Express what you’re manifesting

I repeat: Manifestation does not mean thinking about what you want, and hoping it comes to pass. The most important thing is to take action. Expressing your goals looks different to everyone, whether it’s journaling, speaking your intentions out loud, visualizing your goals, or creating a vision board, but no matter how it clicks for you, express exactly what you want to begin putting into reality. Consistency is also important, so put your vision board somewhere where you will see it often or spend every morning meditation visualizing your goals—it will keep your manifestations at the front of your mind. Also, take ownership over what you’re manifesting. Start telling friends and family that you’re working on healing your symptoms or that 2022 is going to be the year that you hit your career breakthrough—taking ownership of and expressing your wants are what turn them into goals instead of just wishes.

 

 

4. Make a list now of actions you can take.

Most people know about the law of attraction, but there’s also a crucial law of action. Manifestation is not magic—your actions form your reality, and the way you put your manifestations into practice is what brings results. It is worth taking some time to review your list and consider the steps you need in order to achieve them. Do you need to improve your resume, network, or take a class if you want a better career?

If you’re unsure about what action steps will get you toward your goals, a helpful tip is to think about what future you would do. For example, how does “future you” act to other people, what is their morning routine like, and what do they wear to work? Even the smallest details about how we see our future self acting can give us insight into how we should be acting now. Acting like someone who has already achieved these goals will help you become that person. 

 

5. Practice gratitude

It may sound counterintuitive to achieve what you don’t have by being thankful for what you do have, but gratitude is a crucial part of manifestation that many people forget about. The law of attraction says that when you’re in a lack mindset (or focused on not having enough, whether it’s money, love, friendships, etc.If you don’t have enough, you will always have a lack of it. Focus your energy on the things you already have (gratitude) and shift into an abundance mindset.This will attract more of the good things you want. Yes, you can focus on what you want without focusing on what you don’t have. For example, if you want a more fulfilling career, feel gratitude for the passions or experience you already have and visualize what your dream career is like, but don’t waste energy feeling down about how your career is lacking right now. Keep a journal or make a list of all the things you love. Do You will be more attractive to others if you have these qualities. 

 

6. Be free from the beliefs, routines, habits, and relationships that hold you back

Like the lack mindset, negative thoughts, fear, self doubt, and bad habits can also be obstacles in your manifestation practice. Negative things can also be manifested subconsciously because you only get what you put your energy into. For example, telling yourself you’re not good enough is literally manifesting you not being good enough and not achieving that goal. Bonus tip: You may want to work with a therapist on this step, as part of the “letting go” might require healing of past traumas or getting rid of habits you are not sure how to get rid of. 

Start by listing every thought pattern and habit that is holding you back. Then, brainstorm ways to replace each one with a better practice or affirmation. You don’t need to scroll through your phone every day if you feel depleted or uninspired. Instead, find something that will motivate and inspire you. And every limiting thought (“I’m not good enough”) can be replaced with a more intentional, positive affirmation (“I deserve this”).

 

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Source: The Every Girl

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