When I first started having sex, every performance had to be Oscar-worthy. Hot, wild, mind-blowing sex with the sex positions you saw in your favorite porn, followed by some cuddling, and then more mind-blowing sex—that’s what I expected. At first, I did not feel anything like that. Then, there comes a time when you realize that life is tiring, and sometimes, you don’t want to break a sweat just to get off. It turns out that my sex life was much more enjoyable when this happened.
After a stressful day at work, or after a few too many margaritas at happy-hour, the last thing I want is to climb up on someone’s head and whip my hair around. I’d rather not leave my current position in bed, thank you very much. On these days, I’ll turn to a sex position perfect for the laziest days that allow me to embrace my inner pillow princess. And today, I’m spilling my favorites.
1. Corkscrew
Any position where you’re laying on your back is a go-to these days. This position requires minimal effort and puts all the control on your partner. This position requires that your partner stands or kneels on the bed to enter from a different angle. If you’re fond of spooning (see more below), this is a great way to shake it up without giving up on your precious time in bed.
2. Spooning
It doesn’t get much better than spooning! This position can be used for sex with a penis (or a strap-on) or a finger. It is the ultimate lazy sex position. It’s perfect for morning (and middle-of-the-night) sex.
3. Place your hand on your stomach
Any sex position that you could also sleep in is *chef’s kiss*. This position is very comfortable and you can make it more comfortable by placing a pillow under the stomach to support your head. To allow your partner in, you may need to do some wiggling. That is where the pillow comes into play.
4. In the Bath
Is it easier to just take a bath and let your partner watch? It doesn’t. You will feel relaxed after a bath. You can also give it as much as you want. And no matter what, it will be very hot to see you touch your own skin. And if they’re touching themself too? Even hotter.
5. The Spider
While this might be the most involved position on this list, it gets points because you’re still laying down—and with this one, you both get to! You and your partner will be in this position. This is where you lay on your backs, and wrap your legs around one another. You won’t experience the same penetration with this position as others; instead, you’ll grind on each other (whether your partner is inside of you or not), making this a genius position for sapphic sex.
6. Missionary
Where are my missionary friends? The missionary gets a bad reputation for being boring, but it can also be one of the most rewarding positions for connection and pleasure. You probably know the basics of this, but there are always options to spice it up. If you’re not feeling the usual “legs in the air,” you can butterfly your legs out to the side with your knees bent. You can give your partner similar access without having to do a 10 minute yoga routine.
7. Cowboy
We all know Cowgirl, but that one is a little too much work for me after I’ve spent the entire day living my life. Cowboy requires you to lie on your stomach with your knees bent and your partner behind you. Although it may seem complicated at first (hehe), once you get the position right, the orgasms are sure to follow.
Source: The Every Girl
