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You may experience an occasional orgasm slump. Maybe you and your partner just aren’t feeling it or the last thing you’re thinking about at the end of the day is picking up a vibrator. Our sex lives will always ebb and flow, but how do you get it flowing when sex feels altogether “meh?” The last time I went through a sex slump, I enlisted a few products to increase my libido and get me back in the sack.
Getting your libido back after a dry spell takes time, so don’t expect to use one arousal cream and order a new vibrator and all will be well. Our libidos are pretty fickle, and while small things can make them tank, it’s not-so-small things that bring them back. Be gentle with yourself and trust the process—and in the meantime, try my favorite hacks below.
Love Wellness
The Killer (Boric Acid Supplements)
First, I had to check my vagina. My doctor once told me that I was prone to overproducing bacteria. This can lead to chronic bacterial vaginal infections and itchy, unpleasant symptoms. The Killer has changed my life. I have been using it on and off for three year. I take these pills whenever I feel the symptoms start to come on. If it gets really bad, I can use it for up seven nights. I notice a huge difference in my life. They are easy to put in before I go to bed and cost less than a doctor’s appointment and a lot of prescriptions that do exactly the same thing. Before you try these, consult your doctor to ensure they are right for you.
Verishop
Orgasm Arousal Serum
Then I got to work. This serum is a great way to get your libido back, even if it seems hopeless. You’ll notice an improvement in your ability get aroused after applying this serum to the vulvae & clitoris. It increases blood flow to the area, making them more sensitive to touch.
I was skeptical at first, but it worked miracles to get me back on track with my sex lives. After seven days, I noticed a change and my sex life was much better than ever.
The Honey Pot
Unscented Bath Bomb
For me, I know that if my libido isn’t there, it’s usually due to stress and anxiety. These are not good for orgasm. It is important for me to be comfortable with my body, and to be relaxed before I have sex with anyone. I have become obsessed about bath bombs because they make me feel relaxed and comfortable in my body. They don’t alter your vaginal pH so you don’t have worry about undoing the progress you have made. The stress melts away by simply taking a hot bath and doing something for me (like using the bath Bombs I used to have).
Plus, laying naked in a tub requires you to get comfortable with your body—something I know is so necessary for me to orgasm.
VELLA
CBD in Women’s Pleasure Serum
If you could do one thing to increase your libido, it would be this.
This serum can be applied 15 to 20 minutes prior to sex (solo, with a partner), to the clitoris or vulva. You’ll thank me later. It makes every sensation feel better and like it’s awakening all the clitoral nerve endings. This serum made me orgasm more than I had ever before. Even my partner noticed and asked what made me so into it this time around—and I sadly had to answer that it was not them but all this. Since then, my sex life has changed dramatically.
Fleur Marché
CBD Sex Patch
I’ll use these patches if I know I’m going to have sex the next night. Ingredients like maca and L-Arginine as well as CBD help me feel more awake and relaxed.
It’s a ritual I love. It reminds you that I’m going for fun later. All that excitement makes sex fun and not something I have to do.
Maude
Organic Personal Lubricant
A good lube will fix almost anything. This lube is made with water and aloe. It can be used with all sex toys and feels great with a partner.
It also comes in such a beautiful bottle that I leave it on the nightstand.
Lovehoney
We-Vibe X Rechargeable Clitoral Brator
The main event is here! This vibrator is the one I turn to when I’m stuck in a rut. It’s simple and easy to use. A vibrator that you can turn to every day will make your sex life so much easier.
Even if you have a partner, use a vibrator. Sometimes masturbation is the best way to get your libido on track.
Source: The Every Girl
